When days of damp and chilly winter wind gradually decline to be replaced by mornings with a bright and cloudless sky, we wake up one morning with the singing of birds and colorful flower petals which begin to open through the window. Spring is coming. In my tropical country, spring starts a new year. To me, spring this year commences a new life, a married life.
Before I arrived in the United States for spring semester 2009, I had a happy family life with my parents, siblings and my lovely nephews. I also had a job that I really loved and where I was respected. There I had close friends with whom I could have a cup of coffee in a cafĂ© or a relaxing dinner in a restaurant by the river on weekends. That easy life was as familiar to me as my own breath, and I have always remembered it from the first time I came to the U.S. until the day I made a decision that I think was the most important one in my life – the decision to get married in the U.S.
When I decided to settle down here in the U.S., I understood that we would have to face many challenges in our new life. Although I did well in my roles as a daughter and a citizen in my previous family and society, my responsibility from now on will also be as a wife and a mother in a young family. Besides, I have to handle many other relationships with my husband’s family and his friends. I understand that every family has their own circumstances, but I believe my deep sincerity and lessons of family life from my parents will help me to get alo
ng with his family members.
If life is dominated by a search for happiness, I also long for a delightful family with a husband who loves me a lot and lovely children. Flowers are still blooming and birds are still singing outside. Spring of life will always stay with us.


